Loving Smile    Love Time    Loving Sounds    Loving Intentions     Loving Meditation
Shining     Your Guides     Healing Time    Radical Forgiveness    VAI

The first four Loving Tools are given to you freely on this site. It is important for you to understand that if you use the information to proactively add love into your life, you will be energizing all of your beliefs. The beliefs that you have within you that are not congruent with love will become more obvious to you. You will become more aware of them. They will show up more. Therefore it will be helpful for you to learn about the whole Engage Love Process in order to be successful for any length of time. It has been my experience that no part of this process works by itself for any length of time. This is why Engage Love is called a Life Path. Once you start to add love into your life, more and more daily and gain the benefits of doing so, it becomes necessary to learn how your unloving beliefs are working against you. This gives you the ability to change those beliefs so that you can continue to experience more and more love. If you try to just add love without learning how to change your unloving beliefs and the patterns they create, you get to where you can’t add any more love.

Unloving core beliefs are as strong as instinct. Universal beliefs can be even stronger than instinct. If a person just tries to change and heal their unloving beliefs and the patterns they create without learning to add love into their life, they will find that they will not be strong enough to overcome the patterns created by the core and universal beliefs. Adding more and more love into your life daily will make you incredibly strong in many ways. Your aura actually grows metaphysically bigger giving you many benefits. You can read about these benefits in the Loving Smile section.

So if you decide to engage into the Engage Love Process I look forward to meeting you in the Engage Love Experience.

The Four Tools

Loving Meditation

Meditation from the Tantric philosophy means to stop your thoughts completely. Can you do it? See if you can stop your thoughts for the next ten seconds. With the right direction it is easy to learn to meditate. And as you can imagine, it is a wonderful ability to have, to be able to think or not think when you want to. It is also very important that you learn to meditate with your heart open, meditate in love. When a person stops their thinking process the energy that is normally used by thought will go toward the intention of the meditation. If that person’s heart is open, then he/she will receive great benefit. If that person’s heart is closed it will cause pain. It is not healthy to meditate in pain. I tell people all of the time if you cannot smile when you meditate, get up and do Love Time instead. You will gain much more benefit! We teach Loving Meditation in the Engage Love Experience.

Shining

Shining is a Loving Tool that you can learn in the Engage Love Experience. Shining is learning to channel love through being very willful and through allowing the love to come through. It is the most powerful state of love a person can produce for themselves and is the key to creating what we call Loving Strength Of Mind. When a person achieves Loving Strength Of Mind they have gained the strength needed to heal Universal beliefs.

Communicate With Your Guides

Learning to communicate with your guides can be the most extraordinary relationship you ever develop. An ongoing relationship with your guides can be like having the best friend you have ever had who loves you unconditionally. Your guides can communicate in many different ways. One of them is called Sensate, a language of the body which helps you understand when your beliefs are working for or against you. Your guides can help you become aware of things you might not have thought of yourself. They send love to you constantly and their guidance is priceless in times of healing. You will learn what your guides are and how to communicate with them in the Engage Love Experience.

Healing Time

When you practice Healing time, you set aside a certain amount of time every day to heal past trauma, unloving core and universal beliefs that control many parts of your life through your subconscious mind. Most unloving core and universal beliefs started and were firmly established within you when you were very young and they have been having their way with you ever since. Beliefs like, “I don’t want to be here,” “There’s not enough,” “I'm being punished,” “No matter what I do it’s not good enough”’, “Life isn’t fair,” “I can't trust God/life/anyone,” “I never have enough money,” “I hate mean people.” These beliefs drive most people’s thoughts, making it impossible to live in love moment by moment, because deep down we really believe what we are telling ourselves. Therefore, that is what we manifest. Our experience of life is exactly what we believe it should be. Your unloving core beliefs are the cause of most of the pain you have and do experience in your life.

There are easy-to-use tools that you can use to discover the unloving core and universal beliefs you have within you. Once you become aware of your unloving beliefs, they are not as powerful. Once you are aware of them, then you can use your loving tools to heal the patterns they have created in your life.

Radical Forgiveness

The Radical Forgiveness book and process is an invaluable tool to understanding the patterns created by the presence of unloving core and universal beliefs. In the Engage Love Experience we read directly from the first chapter and use the Radical Forgiveness Worksheet.

Voice Activated Integration

VAI

(pronounced vy)

Voice Activated Integration is a method of accessing the deepest parts of your unconscious mind. Through the use of your own voice, you can access channels of communication to programs, beliefs and identities within you that you have developed or partnered with. These very deep programs and identities are mostly rooted in fear and are responsible for keeping you from being the loving, playful, creative, abundant person that you truly are. The VIA technique can be very effective in large groups and is especially powerful one-on-one. We learn how to use VAI the Engage Love Experience.